Relationships
Dating to Engagement Time by State 2026
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State | Time In Months↓ | |
|---|---|---|
 | Ohio | 47.5 |
 | Alaska | 42.7 |
 | Maine | 42.2 |
 | Oklahoma | 41.4 |
 | Rhode Island | 41.4 |
 | Iowa | 40 |
 | Mississippi | 38.5 |
 | South Dakota | 37.3 |
 | Vermont | 36.8 |
 | Colorado | 36.4 |
 | Montana | 36 |
 | Maryland | 35.8 |
 | Massachusetts | 34.7 |
 | Nebraska | 34.3 |
 | Kansas | 33.9 |
 | Arkansas | 33.7 |
 | Wisconsin | 33.4 |
 | Idaho | 33.2 |
 | Hawaii | 32.8 |
 | West Virginia | 32.8 |
 | Arizona | 32.1 |
 | New Mexico | 32.1 |
 | Florida | 31.6 |
 | North Dakota | 31.3 |
 | Alabama | 31.2 |
 | Michigan | 30.7 |
 | Oregon | 30.7 |
 | Virginia | 30.3 |
 | Pennsylvania | 29.3 |
 | Wyoming | 28.3 |
 | New York | 28.2 |
 | Minnesota | 27.4 |
 | Connecticut | 26.3 |
 | Illinois | 26.3 |
 | Kentucky | 25.5 |
 | California | 25.2 |
 | South Carolina | 25.2 |
 | Texas | 24.3 |
 | Georgia | 23.7 |
 | Nevada | 23.3 |
 | New Jersey | 22.9 |
 | Tennessee | 21.5 |
 | Louisiana | 20.8 |
 | Missouri | 18.7 |
 | Utah | 18.2 |
 | North Carolina | 16.4 |
 | Washington | 15.3 |
 | Indiana | 14.8 |
- Statistically relevant data for Delaware and New Hampshire were unavailable
The journey from dating to engagement marks a pivotal moment in a couple’s relationship, signifying a deeper commitment and shared vision for the future. While the average duration of this transition varies from state to state, it’s essential to recognize the cultural and historical significance of engagement rituals. Traditionally, engagements were often arranged affairs, serving as a contractual agreement between families rather than a union of individuals. However, as societal norms evolved, engagements became more personal and reflective of the couple’s mutual decision to move forward together. Today, engagements are celebrated as a symbol of love and partnership, with couples embracing the opportunity to express their commitment in unique and meaningful ways. Delving into the history of engagement customs offers valuable insights into the changing dynamics of romantic relationships and the enduring tradition of uniting hearts in matrimony.
Among the states, there are intriguing variations in the dating-to-engagement timeline. For instance, while couples in North Carolina tend to move from dating to engagement relatively quickly, with an average duration of around 16.4 months, those in Ohio may take considerably longer, with an average engagement period of approximately 47.5 months.
